Gottman’s Four Horsemen, namely Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling, are arguably the most accurate predictors of divorce. Dr. Julie Gottman was able to predict with over 90 percent accuracy whether or not the couples he studied would get divorced within six years. How do you avoid four horsemen? The key to avoiding the four horsemen […]
Skip to content Responding wrongly to a divorce threat can easily end a great relationship moving forward. The best 3-step response to a divorce threat is 1) to understand your emotions in the threat, 2) choose your response (either flaring, inaction, pump up), solve the problem together. The emotions you faced are unprecedented and unexpected […]
Your girlfriend is giving, empathetic, and thoughtful. A ‘nice’ girl. A former people pleaser once reflected on her life and shared that she was often left feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and absolutely miserable after realizing the pattern in all her relationships: An imbalance of her constantly giving, and being surrounded by people who are way too […]
43% percent of couples married than 25 years started in debt. I will provide the easiest template without using complicated Excel, based on the many case studies that I read recently to decipher how couples can pay off debt. Below is my non-Excel couple budget template to pay off your debt: Start With Why Both […]
It’s always a “honeymoon” period during dating, especially for the first 6 months of the relationship. I’m not a love guru but I’m here to share with you what types of man/woman you should avoid when dating (we are talking about long term relationship since this person is the one you’ll be marrying to in […]
When you recently get married, you will enjoy the first few days without any problem, and it is called the honeymoon period. When this period gets over, you will often see husbands might ask this question, why is my wife always angry with her husband? The wife gets angry even on little mistakes like when […]
There are plenty of theories about how to create a happy relationship. You wouldn’t have to look towards marriage gurus because we have compiled a list of rules for a successful marriage. One thing should be in your mind that married life isn’t easy. There can’t be anything better than that if you and your […]
Navigating the aftermath of infidelity is a journey that often catches us off guard. My experience with cheating involved a friend named Cid (redacted) who put his soul and life into his family and child boy, but his wife ended up in an extra-marital affair. Cid’s story taught me that healing is a personal and […]
Skip to content Getting married in a lovely chapel is a dream for many. There are many chapels that provide great wedding services and these are our best wedding chapels in Las Vegas for your wedding or renewal of vows. #1. Chapel of the Flowers #1. Chapel of the Flowers is best for a small and […]
Finally, the time came when you decide to marry someone, and marriage is really a big deal. Getting married is a serious commitment, and you need to be 100% sure about your decision. Commonly, it is said that you need to marry your best friend or a person you can rely on in difficult times. […]
Ever seen one of those trending social media videos where grandparents still dance with each other, or one pulling a prank on the other that garners the likes of thousands, and the envy of millions? Play is immensely powerful. When your inner child feels safe enough to come out to play, something unimaginably beautiful happens. […]
What’re the chances you’d meet or even know an avoidant narcissist, you might think? More often than you realize. While the large majority of the population is reported to be Secure, Avoidants take up a good estimated 22.2 percent. and remaining are Anxious. You might have heard or even read stories people post on forums […]
Skip to content Siddhartha Gautama. That was the name of the Indian prince born to a chief of a Shakya clan, one whom brahmins had already prophesized 12 years before his birth, that a baby shall arrive, and one day become a universal monarch or great sage. Buddha spoke of the Four Noble Truths, which […]
You might have often heard these two terms before marriage and after marriage when someone tries to explain changes in him or her before and after marriage. Both of these terms are different in nature. For example, a man before marriage wouldn’t be called a father, but the same man becomes a father after marriage. […]
